What I learned from a Dog.
Lessons come from all things, no matter their shape or size, animate or inanimate.
Be Gentle with Yourself.
How you do one thing is how you do everything. So, if you can change one pattern, you can change others.
Sorrow & Celebration
I always thought going to a grief conference meant listening to other people’s pain and sorrow—and me, curling up in a fetal position and crying my eyes out.
Freedom Starts from Within.
When dealing with grief, however, Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness can feel incredibly elusive. It feels more like Death, Imprisonment, and Sadness—all the time.
Find a Cheerleader.
Now, making that phone call to my coach was really vulnerable and scary.
Take Time to Remember.
If I continued to hold on to the belief that “the pain I feel is the last thing I have of her,” then letting go of the pain would feel like letting go of her.
Fine-tune your Focus.
Many people refer to this forgetfulness and lack of focus as “Grief Brain.” I don’t particularly care for the expression.
Receiving Love.
I don’t fully believe the old adage, “It’s better to give than to receive.”
Making Demands.
This week I came to realize this is exactly what I do with my higher power with my grief. I turn to my higher power and make demands
Energy is Everything.
It reminds me of how essential it is to make sure that you are supporting your body, not just to manage your grief, to manage your life