The Balance Between Peopling and Coming Back to Yourself
A cold, a few weeks of connection, and an important reminder about grief, recovery, and the seasons of life.
Give Yourself Some Riverbanks This Holiday Season
Room for joy, room for grief, and boundaries that help you care for yourself.
Give Your Worry Somewhere to Go
Someone didn’t do what I expected, and my mind took off. Here’s what brought me back.
Be the Change: The Ripple Effect of Your Story
A night beneath the Milky Way reminded me that even the smallest moments can create extraordinary ripples.
The Spark Is Yours. The Fire Comes Next.
On a backpacking retreat in the Adirondacks, I kept making sparks but no fire. What finally changed wasn’t my technique. It was who I decided to be. A reflection on grief, life transitions, and choosing who you become next, with a simple three-step practice.
The Lessons from Crème Brûlée French Toast
Kindness asks me to listen to what I need, then choose a way to give it to myself.
Say the Hard Thing
Honesty without care can cause harm. Care without honesty can leave us alone.
When the Time Was Right
Sometimes the thing we’ve carried for years moves forward because someone we love is willing to carry it with us.
Lighten the Load, Then Build the Momentum
You don’t have to carry everything to start moving. You just have to start moving.
The Privilege of Getting Older
Every wrinkle, scar, and grey hair is evidence of a privilege not everyone gets.
The Power Went Out. Something Else Came On.
You don’t always have to escape the darkness. Sometimes you just need to listen to it.
Create the Truth You Want to Live.
You may not get to choose what happens to you, but you always get to choose the meaning you give it.
Motivation is Overrated.
Motivation opens the door. Habit teaches you to keep walking through it.
The Power of a Compelling Future
A compelling future isn't something you find. It's something you choose to create.
The Meaning We Choose.
The events of our lives don't shape us nearly as much as the meaning we choose to give them. Change the meaning, and you change your life.
Atlantis Baloney Detection Kit.
Wisdom isn't found in believing everything you hear. It's found in having the courage to examine what you choose to believe.
Keep Their Names Alive.
The belief that they're gone keeps us focused on what we've lost. Saying their name reminds us that our relationship has simply changed form.
What Three Nights of Poor Sleep Taught Me.
You can't pour energy into your life if you never refill the tank.
Pain Is Mandatory. Suffering Is Optional.
Pain is life's invitation to grow. Suffering is what happens when we refuse to grow through it.
The People Who Help Make Us Who We Are.
Today isn't just about celebrating fathers. It's about recognizing the people who showed up, stayed present, and helped shape who we are.